Fun Home and how raising your children affects them in the future

 In Fun Home, by Alison Bechdel, a lot of topics in the novel are related to her upbringing, and how it shaped her life in the future. One thing I did notice though is the way that she was raised really affected her life choices in her later life. Being raised to model someone who is straight, dresses like a traditional girl would, and overall act like a straight woman, while knowing deep down that she is none of those things truly shaped her. The way Bruce raised her was so that she wouldn't end up like him, he was worried, but this merely delayed her from finding her true self. I kind of thought about it like reverse psychology. The more someone tells you not to do something, the more you want to do it. The more Bruce raised her like a straight woman, the more she wanted to be herself and explore. He only delayed the inevitable, not prevented it. I think he was more concerned about her becoming a version of him, which he didn't want, as he was doing some shady things behind the scenes. All he was doing was delaying a process that would occur later, which possibly affected her mental health, as she wasn't able to be who she wanted to be when she was younger but was at least able to later in life.

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